So, what do you do if your ex blocks you?
Should you write a letter to your ex?
Should you ask a mutual friend to talk to your ex?
Should you just let your ex go and hope your ex comes back to you?
Or, should you try to bump into your ex to talk with him/her?
Before you think of doing any of these (some can push your ex even further away), we need to first figure out why your ex blocked you in the first place.
Only after you’ve found out the real reason that your ex blocked you, then can you think about what you should do and how to get your ex to unblock you.
You see, no one would want to block anyone for no reason at all.
For instance, have you ever blocked a telemarketer’s telephone number before?
Chances are you probably have.
So why did you block the number?
Most likely because these types of calls are annoying to you and are nothing but a waste of your time.
For example, when I block someone, it is usually because that person has annoyed me or infuriated me to such an extent that I don’t want to talk to that person anymore.
If that person does not annoy me, then I have absolutely no reason to block them!
Now, let’s come back to the context of your ex blocking you after the breakup.
When you are the one who didn’t want the breakup in the first place, it definitely feels harsh when you find out that your ex has blocked you.
So why did your ex block you?
And will your ex come back to you if you’re blocked?
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You Broke Up With Your Ex And They Want To Heal And Move On
This is one of the most common reasons for your ex to block you (i.e. on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Whatsapp, Skype, etc.).
So why is that?
Simply because it makes it much easier for your ex to heal and move on.
To your ex, it is just too hard to see your updates and photos on these social media websites.
Also, when you two were still together, you used to comment on all their postings all the time.
But now that you two have broken up, and your ex knows that you can see what they have posted but you do not comment on it, it would be very hurtful for them.
So they would rather block you out than wonder if you would make any comments on it.
By blocking you after your breakup, your ex made a conscious decision not to see your profile updates, and therefore no longer gets reminded of you constantly.
To your ex, every reminder of you or the relationship would probably make them depressed, angry or confused.
And it is hindering their healing process.
Apart from that, blocking you on all social media sites might be an effective way for your ex to stop himself/herself from being obsessed with you and checking you out constantly.
We all know how tempting it is to see what our ex has been up to on Social Media sites (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc.)
Actually, there is a silver lining here.
If your ex needs to take such measures to move on from the recent breakup, it might mean that your ex is having a difficult time getting over you and they probably still have feelings for you.
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Your Ex Doesn’t Want You To Contact Them
When you first find out that your ex has blocked you, I understand that you must be utterly shocked and couldn’t believe that your ex would actually do this to you.
Let’s take a step back and think back about what it is that you did that could have made your ex want to block you.
Are you guilty of sending or posting angry messages to your ex and their social media profiles?
Have you been confronting your ex every time you see your ex adding a good-looking friend of the opposite sex, or you see photos of your ex having a good time with someone of the opposite sex?
Have you been texting your ex nonstop, especially if you don’t receive a reply after a while?
Or, have you been continuously begging and pleading with your ex to come back to you?
If you are doing any of the above, then it’s no surprise if your ex has blocked you.
To understand what they are thinking, you have to put yourself in your ex’s shoes for a moment. Imagine you were your ex.
Would you find it annoying if someone were to do such things to you? Most likely so right?
When you are doing such things to annoy your ex, you are essentially giving your ex no choice to block you.
So, what should you do?
First, you should stop doing any more damage to your situation by leaving your ex alone.
When you leave your ex alone, you are using the power of silence after the break-up…
And that can be effective to get your ex to change feelings towards you.
Right now, your ex associates you with all the bad experiences and bad feelings. What we need to do is to break this undesirable association.
This is the first step.
The second step would be to re-establish a new and favourable impression and associate you with good experience and good feelings.
One way to do it is through text messaging.
By strategically using certain words in your texts to your ex, you can put good memories and thoughts into your ex’s mind and get them to see you in a favourable light.
Your Ex Is Dating Someone New
Another possible reason why your ex blocked you is that your ex is probably dating someone new.
Your ex is afraid that you would find out about their new relationship.
So your ex blocked you to prevent you from finding out as your ex is afraid you would go all crazy and confront the person he/she is dating about it.
Blocking you on all social media sites is one way for your ex to avoid all the uncomfortable confrontations with you.
It’s also to prevent you from possibly jeopardizing your ex’s newfound relationship.
I had a female client who got into a relationship with a guy who was from another country when he was transferred to the same country as my female client for a short time.
During this time they travelled together and spent holidays with each other’s families.
Things were going well until this guy got relocated back to his own country.
My client was very upset about the news but she was determined to give the long-distance relationship a try.
A couple of months later, the guy suddenly broke up with her over the phone, saying that he didn’t think it was working and they were better off as friends.
Not long after the breakup, my client saw photos of him with another girl holding hands on Facebook.
Shortly after that photo was posted, she realised that she got blocked by her ex on Facebook after she asked him about the new girl in the photo.
In this case, her ex chose the easy way out by blocking her because he didn’t know how to face my client, and how to handle her questions and confrontations about him dating someone new.
What do you do if your ex is actually dating someone new? I have written a very detailed post about how to get your ex back if they are with someone else here.
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Your Ex Is Hurt And Angry At You
The act of blocking you could also indicate that your ex might be hurt, and is angry at you for what you did to them…
And to a certain extent, these could be signs your ex is pretending to be over you.
It is your ex’s way of venting their anger, and also getting back at you.
One of my readers wrote to me that she would block her boyfriend on Facebook and delete his boyfriend’s phone number whenever they had a fight or argument.
She did this out of anger, revenge and to get her ex jealous.
Not only do women do it, but some men tend to do this as well.
It might look like a very childish and impulsive act.
But, breakups are emotional and people do impulsive things that help them cope with the emotional stress.
So, what should you do in this case?
Don’t make the mistake of confronting your ex about why they blocked you.
This is because when you do that, you will either get ignored or you will irritate your ex even more.
The right thing to do is to give your ex time and space. When your ex is angry at you, they would not be able to think and reason logically.
As time passes, your ex’s anger towards you will slowly subside.
You just need to wait for the right time to initiate contact.
Your Ex Is Using The No Contact Rule On You
Your ex could be using the no contact rule on you.
By blocking you on all social media sites and phones and emails, your ex intends to cut off all communication channels.
This could be a good sign for you if you are looking to get back together with your ex.
Why is that?
People who use no contact rule generally fall into two categories:
1) People who want to reconcile with their ex
2) People who are having difficulties getting over the breakup.
The first case is obviously the most favourable scenario for you if you are thinking about getting back with your ex.
If your ex falls into the first category, what you should expect to see is that your ex might unblock you and re-initiate contact with you after some time (typically one to two months later at most).
If your ex falls into the second category, more often than not it means that your ex still has feelings for you.
By going no contact, it helps your ex take their mind off you and slowly recover from the breakup.
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Your Ex Doesn’t Want To Talk To You Again
This is the least favourable scenario of all so far…
And you might be even wondering, “does my ex miss me at all?” or “will I ever hear from my ex again?”
For your ex to never want to talk to you again, there must be something that you have said or done that pushed your ex to make this decision of cutting all contact with you for good.
Below are two of the most common reasons that your ex might never want to speak to you again.
- You cheated on your ex.
- You ended the relationship on bad terms.
- They feel annoyed at you constantly harassing them to get back with them.
If you cheated on your ex, then it justifies why your ex blocks you.
They are probably very hurt by your actions and if any thoughts of you just lead to more pain for them.
So rather than face all the pain, they choose to block you to erase you from their life.
If you both ended the relationship on bad terms, then it could be that your ex feels that it is just too painful to deal with anything else that has to do with you.
At this point, you should let your ex calm down and wait for them to reinitiate contact with you once they have really cooled down and thought things through.
The third situation is the most common situation by far.
You cannot accept that the breakup has happened and you are fighting desperately to keep the relationship with your ex.
But in such attempts, you are actually “pushing” your ex and this annoys them.
What you should do in this case is to really just step back, take a breather, and stop contacting them.
Constantly contacting them would only irritate them even more, and make them even more convinced that their decision to block you was the right thing to do.
So if you have been constantly harassing your ex to reconsider your relationship with them and to get back with you, then you have to stop doing it right now.
Telling them to get back with you will not get them back with you.
The first step is to let them feel safe to be in contact with you again and you do that by not contacting them at all.
After some time, they will think that you have really gotten over them and possibly contact you again.
The good news is that most of the time your ex doesn’t really mean it when they say that they never want to talk to you again.
During breakups, most of us cannot think logically, and we often say things we don’t really mean it.
With time, you will calm down emotionally, and bad memories would also become blurred. You just need to be patient enough.
Can You Still Get Your Ex Back If You’re Blocked?
While there is certainly no guarantee that you will get back with your ex, it’s certainly still possible.
I’ve seen many situations where exes change their mind and decide to get back with my clients.
Sometimes it’s because their ex just has a change of heart on their own.
And it’s most likely because of a change in their situation.
For example, your ex might have a death in their family.
This family member might be very close to your ex and because of their death, it caused your ex to feel very lonely.
During this time, your ex might remember you and start to reach out to you again to find love and comfort.
While I’ve seen cases like this, it’s not very common that this happens.
The likeliest scenario where your ex will want you back on their own is when they sense a change in you.
Maybe through your mutual friends, your ex learned that you are no longer the same person as when they first broke up with you.
Maybe through your social media, your ex finds you attractive again.
But whatever the case, there are signs that your ex will portray if they want you back.
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3 Signs Your Ex Will Eventually Come Back
So how do you know your ex might eventually come back to you?
Here are a few signs that you will notice…
Sign 1: Your ex suddenly reaches out to you out of the blue
I’ve had many coaching clients that have experienced this.
A recent client of mine is trying to get back an ex who she suspects is trying to get back with his ex-wife.
Her ex and the ex-wife have a daughter together and have recently started to take some pictures together.
My client found out that the ex-wife had been posting pictures of them together as a family.
This made my client panic and think that her ex is getting back with the ex-wife.
Furthermore, my client had messaged her ex just before seeing those pictures and think that her ex has blocked her because he did not reply to the message.
But just a week later, the family picture was taken down from the ex-wife’s profile.
Then her ex suddenly messaged her out of the blue and told her that he had found a part of her lingerie in his room.
When she received the message, she was surprised because she thought she was blocked by her ex.
But it turned out that her ex somehow had a change of heart and reached out to her.
Sign 2: Your Ex Loves You But Is Scared
This happens more often than you would think.
So you might be wondering if your ex loves you, why does your ex block you?
It could be to help your ex “try” and get over you and move on.
But the reality is that your ex probably still hasn’t gotten over you, but at the same time your ex doesn’t think that the relationship is going to work out because of what happened towards the end of the relationship.
What that means is that your ex is conflicted.
Your ex wants the version of you when you both first got together, and not the version of you when the relationship started to go south.
But the fact is that your ex still loves you and still wishes to get the relationship back IF you change.
So how do you get your ex to see that you have changed?
The most common thing that many people do, but is the biggest mistake, is to tell your ex that you will change.
But you probably have already tried it haven’t you?
And you’re still here reading this post on how to get your ex back.
And you haven’t tried it – good. Because it will probably not get your ex back still.
So what should you be doing instead?
The answer is to let your ex experience the change in you.
When you let your ex experience that you have changed without telling them that you have changed…
Then your ex will want you back as long as you get your ex to feel positive around you.
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Sign 3: Your Ex Is Miserable
This is when your ex has a change in their situation.
One situation is when there is a family death as mentioned earlier.
Another situation is when your ex somehow finds out that someone else is chasing you.
This happens more to women than men.
For example, I’ve had many female clients who started to go dating after their ex broke up with them.
This is one of the fastest and most powerful tactics to quickly increase your confidence.
So while going dating, my female clients would take some pictures of themselves with their dates on their social media.
So what happened was when their exes saw those pictures, a feeling of “possession” somehow got triggered in them.
When their exes saw them with someone else, this suddenly made them want my clients back.
And this resulted in my clients’ exes reaching out to them and eventually getting back with them.
So if your ex reaches out to you after seeing you go on a date…
Then chances are it’s because your ex is miserable.
Your ex probably misses the times you both had and wants you back.
Now, do take note that this isn’t a guaranteed way to get your ex back.
There’s no guarantee your ex will reach out to you when your ex sees you with someone else.
Even if your ex is miserable, there’s no guarantee your ex will reach out to you at all.
It all comes down to your individual situation and circumstances.
Bottom Line
Even if you are blocked, you still can get unblocked.
And you can certainly still get your ex back IF you do the right things from here onwards.
So now that you know what to do if your ex blocks you, here’s what you need to do next…
Your Next Step
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Tanya says
My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago only because the month prior I caught him texting someone else and when I confronted him he did nothing but “try to make it work” then on the week he broke up with me he he said he doesn’t love me anymore….
What can I do?
sabby says
Am back here to say thank you!
Charlie says
I knew a guy he left the flats I live in and he said he would never block me on fb. Ten days later he did block me on fb. I haven’t seen him for 4 months I have been blocked for 3 months. When he left he said he would keep in touch but obviously he didn’t. I really wish he would unblock me but he isn’t going to. It is so hard to let go.
Charlene says
My guy friend left the building I live in and he said he would stay in contact and that he wouldn’t block me. He then blocked me 10 days later. I did send a lot of messages to him. I have no way of contacting him. I miss him badly. I feel hopeless knowing there is nothing I can actually do. He left once before and he came back. I obviously know that this time it’s over. He used to say I meant alot to him I clearly don’t. I realise now I never meant anything to him. I wish he would unblock me but I know it is extremely unlikely to happen. I just want to speak to.him again. I messaged him on Christmas day saying thinking of you i then got no reply and I sent alot of message saying you cant ignore me forever.he blocked me on new years eve.
Anonymous says
So bit of a unique one;
My ex of 19 months were living together and happy, a few stresses happened in the relationship, I messaged friends if mine that were female, knowing she wouldn’t like this, because she didn’t, I deleted the messages and she found out, these messages were not anything other than genuine friendship messages.
She lost trust for me and asked me to move out but for us to stay together.
I moved out on the Saturday and she was beside herself crying, calling me her safety blanket and her rock and that she won’t know what to do without me.
I didn’t speak to her on the Sunday.
I received a message off her at 2AM Monday morning which she deleted so I didn’t get to read it, then Monday morning at 6AM I wake up for work and as soon as I go online she facetimed me, no promoting from my side, she saw that I was online and rang. We spoke like a normal couple (as we always did) I then rang her on my way to work, the whole call was normal, love yous at the end etc.
Then that day she is hot and cold, not messaging back etc
I call her on it and she calls me at work, says that she needs a few days to not talk to me,
Next day she blocks me on Facebook and tells me that we are over on wattsapp then blocks me everywhere.
I email her to organise picking a few things up and the end email she sends states that she does not want me to contact her.
I have been amicable throughout and have now been in no contact for 14 days.
What can I do about this? I am honering her wishes but am very confused about this as our relationship was good, obviously we had our arguments and disagreements, and at points were both wrong in our actions, these were resolved quickly.
Will she come back??
Also she gave me rules for when I moved out (before breakup) that I wasn’t aloud to message any other girls or do anything like this, any help would be much appreciated, I’m struggling
Rodney says
When my ex broke up with me, I came off as desperate, needy etc. I would give her space, and time then reach out. It would always end up being an argument and her threatening to block me. She was always “leave me alone” etc. So one time, I said “you must not want to not talk to me that bad”. This initiated the phone number to be blocked. HOWEVER, she just unfriended me on social media and that is my way of contacting her. Since she did that I have initiated the no contact rule. Not sure what to do next or what to think?
Greg Dumas says
After five years of seperation my ex is finally back to me. Thanks for this post!
Rhonda says
My husbands ex wife constantly calls or texts with jealousy , harassment or wants money. I told him it would never stop. So the last resort was for him to block her. He finally did two days ago. Hopefully from here on out, our lives will be peaceful.
Z says
My ex woman blocked me on social media BUT not her phone number. What am I to do?
Andy says
Same
Leslie says
My ex broke up with me. He owes me over 6k$. He throws maybe 200$ a month at me for payment while I see on social media that bought over 10k worth of studio and photography gear. I called him out on it and told him I will sue him and what a user he is. Then he blocked me on all social media, called me manic and crazy, and told me he will counter sue me for hurrasing him. I am totally lost since he is the one owing me.
FU says
YOU CHEATED NOT ME
Ted says
I had insecurities about her cheating on me. I confronted her on what I had heard and she blew up. Kicked me out and blocked me. I just wanted a conversation. Then mean things were said. I still want to work it out
Antonio says
I have also been blocked and have just paid for the coaching and I am waiting for a response. I will let you guys know if I am successful in getting my girlfriend back note I did not say ex as I have faith. Initially my girlfriend called me one night and said she wanted to break up. It was especially harsh as a friend of mine also died that day! So I told her I was cool with it but she made contact and I made the classic mistakes of telling her in person to give me a chance. We even went out a couple times and made love but the following day she said not to contact her again and she blocked me? It was strange as I thought we were getting back together. I thought that it was entirely possible she met someone else. It has been a month that I have been blocked. I sent a couple of short messages and an email telling her I would not go to her home and disturb her. Somehow I have managed to control my emotions and not phone her or go to her house. If she has met someone new then I will just move on, if not I have faith I can get her back. I will let you guys know how it goes. Wish me luck everyone and God bless you all. May you all find happiness and love.
Semantic says
How did it go? I am in the same position as you, completely.
Denis says
I deserve to be block I can’t control my emotions after the break up still today I don’t know what I did for her to break up whit me the wors think I never live when you don’t know is very hard on me I try to move on for now is disturbing in my mind
Leigh says
I feel you💔, she blocked me because I hurt her but I didn’t mean to I was so emotional that day because she left me behind. I am truly attached with her that even though we’re not together I still missed her and I still want her back😭
Leigh says
I know I was wrong and I just want to say that I am truly sorry for what I did. I was so emotional But how can I fix it if you blocked me in the first place? I did beg to you, all I want is just a little talk, one last talk with you before your flight is that so hard to ask? And even though its been 7 months since we both decided to end our relationship I still missed you and I really dont know what to do, Im sorry trina .. Just be safe and happy wherever you are. I miss you so much💔
John Jab says
I’m a JERK. My ex is fantastic. Seeing me while being only separated, but the marriage has failed, DONE. However I have a special needs daughter and my wife could not handle her any longer. My lover EX got mad at me moments prior to argument when I told her I asked my separated wife to come back as I needed help with the house and daughter. I was some what intoxicated and so was my lover. A argument broke out and she goes from 0-bitch in 2 seconds and I acted like a intoxicated JERK the entire time., Tried to call her to make amends and what I got was “I do not want to speak to you have a great rest of your life” – hang up. ( the rest of your life sounded rather vengeful). I read about the 30 day no contact and implemented it. Now its probably 90 days as 20 days into it for no apparent reason I got blocked after she read the messages I left prior to the argument. I feel so bad that I can not talk to her and try to straighten the situation out but we need a break. Every argument we ever had was over with in 24 hours, her and I are good like that but this argument was the pinnacle of all arguments. Any thoughts – Thank you
Goth says
You will heal at some point and I hope you do for now take a break away from the phone.
Raffaele says
Same for me ! I undestand u my friend!!
Anonymous says
I get that
Eabeth says
Trust me I understand my ex and I have been back and fourth four times now. He blocks and un blocks me through the course of this. It plays with my emotions and I still love home deerly. He has posted things on FB about me and then taken it down! To be blunt I am so confused and hurt. This last time it bad I have been through a lot with him but if I have a hard time he breaks up with me. Some of his friends tell him that I am not right for him. These friends liked me at some point. He says he is miserable wo me and he goes with whatever anyone tells him rather than following what he wants. He is off and on again like the wind. What do I do?
Ray says
So me and my boyfriend now exboyfriend were cool when we were dating but then. One day out of the blue during the summer.He broke up with me for no reason and has blocked me what do i do now ?
Sj says
Man are jurk sometimes but you still love him .time will tell if he want to work things out
Anonymous says
Fuck that boy friend
lenny says
Its hard to say. He might have found another girl better than you maybe. Ithappened the same to me, after this summer my best friend broke up with me, she blocked me both in whatsapp and instagram. I can’t do anything now but to regret.
Sam says
Block him and move on with your life delete him from your life.
Tony says
Go blow a random?
Rob says
My ex girlfriend made me really upset at New Years. It was my birthday and she only texted me to wish me a Happy Birthday! We dated for 7 months. I took this to heart and started asking her if she loved me or if something was up. She finally got fed up with me asking, and broke up with me. Was I wrong to ask about my feelings of her love to me?
Nick says
Don’t ever ask a girl if she loves you. That makes you look insecure. So what if she says that? She should show her love by her actions. If she doesn’t then maybe you should move on.
hikayamasan353 says
Well. For me what is important is not the issues with ex-boyfriends/girlfriends (romantic dating partners), but with just plain, platonic friendship. Especially so far as I’ve been reading, friend losses are even harder to get over than boyfriend/girlfriend loss.
One of most significant friend losses in my life was the loss of one vlogger girl that I’ve been admiring before for years. All started with… me having depression attack, missing everyone of my friends over summer holidays, and talking everything out. I was feeling like I really would be better off dead and unburied, so I wrote an email to her (note: we have just met then!) about my suicidal feelings and self-harm. She couldn’t deal with that and perceived it as threats, got scared of it all, and published all our conversations. Her fans started raging out and posting mean comments about me, that I need mental help, etc. I tried to talk to every single one of them, and that girl perceived it all as me harassing her, and blocked me. Some time later, we tried to reconcile on one website which is now closed. We got along well despite me trying to keep my identity concealed (I was quite in fear of being “compromised”). Between these times I had alot of anxiety. When the website got closed I also got a big anxiety attack. I once blocked her out of anxiety, she blocked me back – and now everywhere!!! I tried to write her everything I feel about it all, later on she made a video about it all and the same as before repeated. I keep self-harming and cutting myself. I WILL keep. Deal with fucking that! I will never have any friends anymore. And please don’t feel sorry for me because you know I need euthanasia.
FeistyPepper says
If an ex has blocked you regardless of the reasons behind the action you need to respect their space and privacy. I think this article may give someone who is obsessive a glimmer of hope and that in all actuality if someone blocks you they should immediately stop trying to figure out ways to further contact someone who CLEARLY does not want contact for whatever the reasons may be. I have a person who was a former friend who is stalking me and had to block him, he still comes into my work. He thinks that he can still be friends with me even though I clearly blocked him, ignore him and told him upfront I never wanted to see him again…..if someone blocks you it pretty much means to leave them alone! Not….oh well maybe…uh, No!If they think they have a chance of getting back together with this person for some reason stop focusing on that person period and work on yourself. Actions speak louder than words and if someone blocks you then it usually means they don’t want you in their lives. I know I say what I mean and mean what I say and that is it but not everyone is like that. For those who use it as a manipulative tool….why on earth would you want to get back with them?! Move on.
Liam says
I understand for sure what your saying, but the thing with me is that my ex and I went threw a lot and she had blocked me and everything, it’s been 2 years and because we have common friends, I want to see if we can just be friends and only friends, yet she still didn’t want to, so why didn’t she at least wonna be feiends
Saz says
I contacted my ex every day for 6 months and he blocked me. I don’t consider that harassment at all because it’s obvious it is not. He ended the relationship out of the blue. We never event fought. But he’s also an unstable person so…I’m still finding it difficult to move on and wondering will he ever unblock me. Like I can’t really be happy in anything I do. I just work? Shut down from everyone and prefer to be alone without people
Mandy says
This is how I am too…I shut down from people🥺
N.J.Lockwood says
I found out my ex-fiancé was cheating on my with a really good friend of mine, and has moved in with her, he has blocked all communication on all his devices, but it is nothing I’ve done, it’s because he can’t deal with what he’s done to me,
There is no answer to my dilemma ! I’m completely broken-hearted and betrayed !
Sky says
I love my girlfriend so much…
But i cheat her…Now i realise what stupid thing i did..
I say thousand time sorry to her…i did everything what can i do more….
Even i attempt sucide also but she blocked me…
I really want get her back….
I m in big problem
Please help me….
Nass says
Just move on ! U will find a better one . Remember every thing happens for a reason
T. says
U will find a better one? Excuse me but who is the one who cheated…? The fact that the cheating happened was a mistake and the person involved in the cheating regrets it. This is a very good sign – it shows compassion and love. But it seems she is too hurt to be able to forgive this… It happens. Sometimes unfortunately we all have to learn the hard way… 🙁
Aeris says
Me and my ex boyfriend knew each other for 4 years before we dated. When we first met, he had the biggest crush on me but thought I wouldn’t be interested just because he was black… lol but no he is a great guy and we dated for about 9 days in March, I know that sounds silly but time is not a measure of love, I fell in love with him over the years and we broke up over a ridiculous reason.
Then we kept in contact and stayed as friends but I obviously still had feelings for him and he did as well but I kept rushing him to be with me again. We used to stay up late and drink and have deep conversations about our lives, dreams, feelings, hopes.. (mind you this was when we were not together) and then drama kept happening one after another and I guess it was overwhelming to him and he blocked me on Facebook and Instagram which were my only ways of contacting him. He had me blocked for months but recently he unblocked me on Instagram and he did not message me, I noticed myself because I like to check up on him and he kept ignoring my messages and then finally I got fed up because I heard he was talking nasty about me behind my back saying I was the one that hurt him, like okay I get it, I made mistakes but come on dude, I tried to make myself better for him and stayed by his side when no one else did. Anyway, I got fed up because how could he say these things about me? So my childish ass posted something up on Instagram calling him out (I even tagged him) and that just made everything worse. He commented back nasty comments and then blocked me again. I feel like if I just waited, he would have talked to me but it was an impulse. I know where he hangs out and with who and I could run into him whenever I wanted but I am absolutely terrified. I dreamt of this kid for 3 days straight and I just want to speak to him again but I dont know how. Any advice?
Elena says
I had a relationship with one guy for several months and once he asked me to break up with him. I said yes coz if I wouldn’t say it, it would sound weird from me. After some days he asked me why did I say yes, but I don’t remember what I replied. Sometimes I was mean to him and sometimes I was playing on his nerves. And after a while he blocked me. After that I fell in love with him even more and I really wanted to contact him, then I changed number and messaged him. He just said that he wasn’t on a mood to talk and blocked me again. Then I started making fake accounts to contact him. I know it sounds really weird but actually I was stalking him. For the first time I messaged him with an account which wasn’t good prepared. He understood that it was me and told me that he had moved on and I asked him the reason of blocking me and told him that it would be the last question from me, and he told me that he didn’t like me. I regretted for the things I told him. And after a big while I messaged him again with another account, but guess what? I’m a bad liar. He understood it again. I was really ashamed and told him that he was talking about someone else. And for sure he blocked me again. I really wanna make him like me back. Can you guys help me please?
Sei Rah says
Based on experience I also have done that before and you should stop stalking him. Trust me that would just backfire and it would scare him away rather than go back to you. Focus on what you can do and improve yourself. He will notice that and eventually see your changes and will like you again, hopefully. Hope that helps
Amponsah grace says
My guy came around my to see me and when I got to where he was, he was making a call so I decided to sit in the call. Immediately I sat in the call I heard he talking to another girl telling her he’s going to celebrate her birthday for her. I suddenly got angry and told him that I want to go back to the house he got angry when I said that and started accusing me of wanting to see someone else. I open the car n try getting out but he pulled me back. He felt bad n begging me to stop what I was doing. I didn’t want to tell him about what I heard so I came back to the house n before I opened my Whatsapp he has blocked me so I sent him an sms on what I heard the reason why I acted that way but I still love him and he hasn’t also said anything about my what I told him. I don’t know what to do please help me
Amor says
This guy i was dating suddenly blocked me, for what reason, I dont know as we were in good terms and even supposed to meet the day he did that. He was even the one really eager to hangout again texting about the plans for our next meet up. Why did he block me then?
Sra says
I was my ex’s first girlfriend, he loved me so much and took care of me and we was interesting to keep the relationship on a good terms and me as well, but we used to argue a lot and after 2 months he started slowly getting over me until he said that he lost all his feelings for me, his friend and brother used to put bad stuff in his mind about our relationship and he didn’t have any experience so he thought that relationships don’t include fights, he wasn’t convinced even though he used to agree with this in front of me, what i did was hiding our problems and when i get mad at him because of his acts and tell our common friends about it before him and he got mad at me because of this that i am not comfortable enough with him, at the end when he broke up with me, he hada bad time facing that and he felt bad, cause i kept begging him and showing him that i love him by being clingy and never leave him alone thinking that i am trying to be close to him and reminding him of pur good times together before. After a while, he became so distant and said that in too obsessed about him so we need distance and refused to go out with me, then we were planning to go on prom together so on the same day he asked another girl and this girl is really desperate cause she never had a boyfriend before and she is giving him everything now and they started dating and he seems that he is having fun with her, after a while he blocked me everywhere on social media and when i see him in school he ignores me and he stays with her all the time. I distant myseld from his frnds and showing everyone that i moved on which im trying to do and i am letting him wonder what happened to me, it has been almost months since out break up and almost a month since the last time we talked. Can someone please tell me what’s their opinion about it?
Sufar says
Quick question? The last time my ex and spent time together was great and sweet, then the next day he’d texted me and said that maybe it’s a better if we don’t talk anymore. I was confused and asked him why? And he said because I went around and said things about what we do to others at work. Which I didn’t say anything to anyone. We used to work together at the same place so everyone knows we were seeing each other but i have not said anything to anyone. It’s not like they don’t know about us. His dad and I still work for the sane company. So his last text was I got him in trouble with his dad, and it best if we didn’t talk anymore? And he said that he has no problem blocking me so he did. It’s been almost two weeks now and I’m still being blocked. Help please. Any advise will be helpful thanks
Angel says
My boyfriend broke up with yesterday and then blocked me. The reason is, (I was so stupid) I sent him a screenshot of me conversing with my ex, with some sexual topics. But I really made it clear to my ex that I have a boyfriend already and I love him so much. My boyfriend thought that I am hiding most of the content, which is true. But never did I cheat on him not I ever plan to. He said I can’t be a good mother to his future kids and I have a very big tendency of cheating in the future. Please help 🙁
Thank you.
tania says
I dated my bf for 6 months and one day out of the blue he texts me saying we should take our own paths for some stupid reason no one would believe him. then right away deletes all of our pictures in instagram and facebook.deleted my number not sure if he blocked it too. first unfollows me in insta, then makes his profile private, then blocks me. deleted me off facebook couple days later completely blocks me in fb . why go through so much trouble and doing all that…it was enough with deleting me on fb cuz i cant even see anything and making his insta private enough too cuz i cant see nothing either.
Karan says
Me and my recently become ex girlfriend got separated almost 2 months back ….I am in love with her for last 10 years and for last 4 years she was in serious relationship with me ….I proposed her in 2006 when she was 16 years old and I was 25 years old …but after I found she was chatting whole night with someone , one of her classmates …I shouted on her in a hotel and slapped her …she separated and focussed in study ….later in 2008 again we reunited with the help of her elder sister …this time she might thought I was changed and I was literally changed but I lived her I my and allowed none to enter in my life ….she pursued her graduation in a metro city but alongside started enjoying friend circles and nightlife with other guys and specially with one gut ..I left my job career relationship with family friends and transferred to the location where she was studying …I was her local guardian in her hostel also …So easily we could meet and hang around …we dreamed of marriage after her graduation and my career settlement in same metro ..but after finding her these weird acts I got annoyed felt cheated and informed her parents at home town ….her parents called her to her home town and she had to get back to drakonian regime for career and study she blamed me for this and in turn I blamed her for infidelity ….3 Yeats we didn’t see each other …she loved someone else in her college days in 2009 to 2011 and I as busy in my career my age was 31 till then …I got good opportunity to work abroad and I left my country ..but I didn’t allow any girl to enter in my life in between ….again in 2011 because of intermediation by her elder sister we again reunited but she was reluctant to proceed with me ..by that time she again relocated to the same metro city which she lest in 2009 …she came there for her post graduation course from one of country’s leading universities……she came to meet me personally in hotel we had physical affair but she didn’t want to proceed in her personal life with me ….I kept my cool and furnished all responsiblilities such as gifting wishing on time to time on different occasions …later on in 2012 she again met me and disclosed she was having affair with someone physically and emotionally …when her current boyfriend came to know that she came to meet me he shouted and abused her and I listened all but told him to stay away as she wa with me then ….that fellow stayed away and from then me and my now ex started a fresh new life since 2011…I visited approximately 8 times to my home country in order to keep her emotionally satisfied and providebher time …though it was always a long distance relationship but we always kept our emotions high ….she was physically attached with other guys in past too but since I loved her I ignored all these …in between 2013 – 2015 I couldn’t visit my home country because of my professional commitments and personal issues and she completed her post graduation and joined a contractual job for 2 yrs as teaching …her age was 24 yrs and mine was 33 yrsr …in between she found one of her colleague young charming and emotionally attached to this guy…later she hanged around withbsane guy at several locations and hill station to enjoy her life …they had physical affair also ….she told me about this guy and told that this guy had proposed her but she wanna go with me in life ahead ….she actually wanted to be with that guy from core of her heart but may be she was just carrying on relationship with me perhaps under obligation sincebi was just caring too much in terms of financial support and as a typical husband material but not as a boyfriend material …in bertween she told me these stuff and expressed her desire that she was not happy in our relationship but later on it was ok …and we started again as usual our talks and love ….in between these 2-2.6 yrs since I couldn’t get back to home country and meet her she came to meet me abroad where I am working ….after completion of her contractual job she got a full time job in a public sector bank as manager with decent salary…this is the job for which most people aspire forbinnthag country and if some male get that kind of job his demand in society touches sky high so career was now she was setteled in June 2016=…here her ex colleague come boyfriend also got settled in an MNC near to her working location in same country …very recently in 2016 I visited my home country and i found that just before a month both of them ( my ex girlfriend andbhwr ex colleague dum existing boyfriend ) had gone to hill station to enjoy …I got proofs of this trip and their some other trips also in her iPhone as pics and chats which showed her emotional attachment with that guy …I showed to her but she told me nothing like that happened as I thought ….I ignored again and reprimanded her to start a fresh life again by forgetting all these infidelity ….recently I got introduced to her family for marriage but very sooner don’t know cause of what reason she became infidel again and lied to me lot of stuffs like she was busy in some training and didn’t find time to meet me ( which was proved wrong by her bank branch manager and later I came to know these lie ) actually she gone to a hill station with a male member of her office , office colleague and she was in touch with her constatntly for almost a month completely …every night she was talking to her 1 hour and was telling me that someone else like her other colleague is talking to her ..I was with my parents so I couldn’t even trace who he or she was….with same guy she had gone to hill station to spend her weekend rather abounded me to meet even I requested her that I have lumutedbtime here to see her coz I can move abroad sooner ….later I found she had proposed tjisbguy also …don’t know whether they had physical affair or not which they deny outrightly but later I came to completw realty about her past physical and emotional attachment with someone else with whom she still in touch with and crave for …and the recent male with whome she had gone to that hill station , she is still in touch with him ….these all pained me a lot and eventually I bursted out i abused her verbally randomly and slapped and physically tortured her up to certain extent too …I was so aggrieved and in pain I asked her to give back my gifted items engagement ring and all other gifts which I had given her in past such as gold coin etc retc……..though these are worthless for me coz I still love her and want her to get married only cause I had forgiven her in past so have that courage to forgive her again …but she has cut off all kind relationship with me and she has become indifferent towards me …i realized from some sources she has done intentionallybto keep me out from her life ….she has portrayed my image in her friend circles as psycho and criminal etc. Etc…..therefore none of her friends entertain me or listen me as well….in between I was so angry I started sharing our some pvt pics ( her pics with me and pics with her ex boyfriends) with her current bank colleagues and sisters it backfired me and her sister warned me to go for legal action and her friends informed her that I was doing such …I was looking for sort of revenge and favour from her friends but it backfired me ……. i was stalking her whatsapp through some other account now she has deleted that and created a new one which I don’t even know and none of her friends or anybody is willing enough tondiaclose to me coz no body even takes my call and she has told everyone that my ex boyfriend is psycho don’t talk to him and ignore whatever he talks about ……even her colleague with whole she had gone to hill station has deleted his whatsapp account …I doubt now both of then are in relationship …….on 25th may 2016 she has bday but I can’t even wish her coz I am following no contact rule since last 10 days …m sure she might have moved on or about to….. plz help me to get her back to force her to love me back intensely if possible …plz help me
Jessica says
My ex girlfriend blocked me on fb but they still contact me by calling me and they still text me …theres times were we text all day then there times where she dosent text me at all
Nana says
Guys help me…
My ex-bf and I broke up around 3 months ago.
We argued alot , he wants me to stop this shit and let us to be relaxed and after 3 days we meet eachother but I couldn’t… suddenly he ended the call and blocked me everywhere! Everywhere!!!
Instagram.whatsapp.imo.telegram.my phone number.SMS… Even he blocked 2 of my friends who had never met him before. He just know that they were my friends…
I dont know why…
I knew he was angry at me. I hurt him. I did something which I knew He hates them but we were good we had amazing sex life and Im sure he enjoyed…
By the way, I had one way to connected to him, so I send him 2 Email in 2 months.
I just said , Im so sorry , let us trying to be friend, I miss you so much and ….
I was sure he won’t answer but he answered me , after 3 months no news, no friendship…
He said that he is fine but he still has so many problems with my reactions and he can say that he couldn’t forget them. He doesn’t want think about them and, he wished that I have a good time,too.
I know it is not a good massage, but he had a reaction after 3 month and it is good yes?!
What should I do for being with him .? 🙁
Gustavo prtega says
I was dating this girl from san jose and i live in santa ana ca. I met her through my bestfriend which means they were cousins, we started talking throughput facebook we talked on the phone. After black friday went to go vidit her at san jose i was there for 2 days everything was going so smooth. On feburary 2 she told me that she will delete her facebook so she did then i went to the messenger app cause i was talking to my bestfriend and saw that her picture was still there and i went to go see her profile I wouldn’t let me. So i started doubting and feeling weird sad jealous everything at once. I ask her do u still use facebook and she told me no so what i did i made a fake one and saw her profile and eveything so she lied to me and so i played it casual (at this time we broke up do to some couple of problems) anyways i started talking to her and she replied until the next day i send her a text message from my iPhone told her hey let me call u so we can say goodbye for good she didnt respond to my request so she changed the subject and we statred talking again, at that time we were talking i still was talking to her from the fake facebook account she found out it was me cause of my nearby friends thing that facebook has. The thing that hurt her so much is that i was playing a bad guy in facebook told her that i dont loke woman with kids there nasty. But my plan was to show her that theres a lot of guys out there that they are going to be sweet talking to her just to get into her pants. That wasnt me at all when i met her I actually wanted to have something serious something strong with her. Anywho she send me a text on my phone (haha woman with kids) and i responded to her what are u talking about she nothing you i guess your making me worry now i guess well talk later if u want she said yea well talk later so we didnt talk at all. And now she blocked me from everything cause now she thinks i actually was lying all this time which i not true cause I accept her with the gorgeous little angel she had. Its been two weeks with no contact.. I really need help I screwed up big time. I want to show her that im more different than that. What should i do how can i over come this pain that slows ke down everyday and at work cause i was used to talking to her texting to her at my breaks now im hopless.. Please help me i want to fix this.!!
May God be with all of you.!
Cat says
I think my ex blocked me in a rage because I ended it abruptly, even though we agreed it wasn’t right. We had such strong feelings for each other though, it’s so hard. I am broken because by blocking me he has removed memories and photos etc. But I can understand him finding it painful to see me online. I still have his phone number, and I told him it had hurt me, and he just said he didn’t want to talk to me on social media, he would never forget me, and he would ‘slide’ if he got in touch. I can still call/text him, but his number is blocked so I’m not tempted. I’m devastated we’ve lost our memories though. And still want him back 🙁
kathryn says
I was in a 10 yr relationship with my high school sweetheart and 4 months ago he left me because I had depression and it caused me to cheat on him twice. he was heartbroken and told me he was falling out of love with me (probably due to my depression and cheating) and I haven’t heard from him since. he’s completely blocked me out of his life Facebook, email, phone, texts etc. I have tried everything and he was able to handle the first event of cheating on a reasonable level to the point he wouldn’t leave me. a few months later i was in a bad situation another guy forced himself on me and i took responsibility for it and told him i cheated on him again. We’re 27 and have been through 10 years of everything, ups and downs long distance – everything we have gotten over it until now. Its been 4 months I haven’t heard from him since October and I don’t know what to do. I feel there is no hope or chance to regain his love for me again and to have him want to come back and contact me without me trying to contact him first. He doesn’t reply to any emails, phone calls or texts etc. How can I fix this and have him want to be with me again?
Keith says
Umm… depression doesn’t cause you to cheat on someone you love that was just you being unfaithful.
Lily says
I dated that guy for about a month , I felt really connected with him and started falling for him , but he started ignoring my text after few weeks of dating. I would always text him but he would never bother to text me. So one night I decided to go on his Facebook page from mine and saw a in a relationship status around the time he met me. So I took a screenshot of it and asked him , and he replied saying he was dating someone before me so it was cool. After that night I called he didn’t pick up I texted him he barely replied so I decided to do more digging and I found the girl he said he dated before me , she still was liking his picture and all that. I didn’t had any proof .. So on valentine day at 4 am I texted him askin no why he is ignoring me so he read it and didn’t reply so I agin texted him and asked why he is not replying me back and I wanted him to be clear with me , so he blocked me right way on Facebook. It was like the worst break up , on v-day. So after that I never contacted him , I moved on cause it was obvious that he had somebody else or he would try to explain to me. I didn’t delete him from my Facebook or anything cause it’s shows the sign that I am hurt by him. But now he after a week he suddenly blocks me .. It’s strange i kinda feel hurt now
Latae says
This article was helpful my exboyfriend was my high school sweetheart . We both live in two different states over the years we kept in contact with each threw social media and direct phone conversation . And decide to get back with each other. I went up and visited him recently had a great time . I think my down fail was calling and texting him to much . One day I log into my Facebook account to notice that he blocked me . I was crushed because he could have said something to me. Without blocking me from his page . What should I do ?
angela says
Just ignore him….show him that u r happy widout him….then properly he wil cum online…..we wil msg u….it has happen wid me too…..this guys are like that only….they only knw to play wid our feelings…
Derek says
My girlfriend did the same thing to me. She blocked me after we rekindled the flame by flirting again. I got upset when she didn’t text me back one weekend. I got worried. I wanted to make sure she was okay! She’s small and fragile but thinks she’s capable of handeling anything the world throws at her. She got mad that i was texting her a lot and she was annoyed. Before this incident her and I had snapchatted and texted for consecutive days multiple times a day. We had a messy break up and then she said she wanted to be friends again. She texted me everyday again so I grew attached again. Too soon. I blew up on her saying that she broke my heart again by saying mean things when all I was doing was checking up on her. She then blocked me on Insta and snapchat but left my cell # unblocked. What does that mean? We were best friends and I miss her.
Leslie says
This reply may be too late, but did you try texting him or contacting him through another venue to ask him why he blocked you? Did you talk about getting back together at any point or is he seeing other people as well? My daughter just entered a very similar situation with her HS sweetheart. They are both away at different colleges.
pooja says
need help and guidance.9 months of frnshp n one mnth of love.sudden breakup by him no response since 2 months.blocked on all no.s.how could i get him back
Anonymous says
Ignore him..and give one last chance to urself …than move on
Shaun says
My ex and I dated for about 18 months and then she left me for some other guy. As time goes by she sporadically contacts me on her terms only. A few months later I text her. The next day she texts me first telling me something personal she found out by going through my facebook. She unblocked me.
Then the following day she texts me again about the break up claiming she had feelings for the other guy during the last few months of our relationship. She then says they have something amazing together. I tell her I don’t need to hear that and then she explodes on me and tells me to never talk to her again and then reblocks my Facebook. She then explodes to a mutual friend about our conversation saying how I don’t get that we won’t work because she is a country girl and I’m a city boy.
A month later I text her saying I unblocked her and she can block me is she wants, and she tells me to never contact and harass her again but unblocks my facebook. I tell her I will respect her wishes and will not contact her and if she wants to talk, she can initiate it. Then a week goes by of no contact and she reblocks my Facebook. She has blocked me probably 4-5 times since the breakup. Yet contacts me from time to time. But WHY would she reblock me after a week of nothing (no contact with each other)?
It’s like something triggered her to block me after a week. We have NOT been Facebook friends for 5 months and she still blocks me. From my Facebook, my life looks pretty good. I talk about my new job, the vacations I’m going too, pictures of me and our mutual friends partying, me with another girl (basically I look very happy). But WHY would she block me randomly after a week?
Leigh says
She is being passive-aggressive. On the surface she’s saying, “Leave me alone,” but what she’s really saying is, “Chase after me.” The going for the other guy was probably just because she felt like she wasn’t getting something she needed from you emotionally… but you’re still the one she wants in her mind.
Tell her if she wants to be with you, you need her to be open and direct with you, and not play that game. But if you still want her, you should be direct about that, too, to make her feel secure. Not in a pleading way, just tell her the truth. You both need to hold up your end of the bargain.
sandra says
She probably doesnt want to see you so happy without her. Or is was for attention.
Anonymous says
Girls psychology is different , they always try to confuse , u should apply no contact rule
Jonas says
I blocked my x after 3 months of her going push/pull and even showing up on my doorstep!!
I went for a full block. And now 1-2 weeks after she suddenly starts to block and unfriend me on FB and unfriend me on spotify!?
I don’t really see the point in that, but hey it’s not me suffering from a mental disease….
jm718 says
That’s my story.
Paul says
She’s stalkin u
Nathan says
My girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago after 2.5 years together. NC for a month since then.
She deleted/blocked me from all social media accounts a month ago – including unfollowing me from instagram.
Yesterday would’ve been our 3 year anniversary. I happened to go on Instagram last night (while she unfollowed me, I chose not to, because she barely ever uses instagram). I noticed she posted 2 photos: one of an “emotional baggage” poster, the other of a poster saying “Things are better when we are together.”. Weird timing given it would’ve been our anniversary, but I shrugged it off and chalked it up to coincidence.
This morning I happened to be scrolling my feed and realized her photos were missing, and that she’s now completely blocked me on instagram. Meanwhile, I haven’t been bothering her at all, and she had already unfollowed me a month prior.
I know deleting/blocking is not meant to be personal – but I’m a bit angry because I feel it should be my decision whether I want to “follow” someone or not. That choice shouldn’t be decided for me.
So why do ex’s do this kind of thing when you haven’t been bothering them?
Abhi says
I’m in the same boat bro! she ‘s confused about her own life at the moment. You should not bother her and give her space to come out of this awkward emotions. Just don’t message/call her, not even unintentionally. Act like you’re done with this relationship. The more you disappear, the more she’d run after you. Remember ; people always want to have something they can’t get it easily. Make her feel that she made a mistake of letting you go. Eventually she’ll think over you and contact you no matter where she is.
Donny says
I had already known that she blocked my phone number, as that’s pretty much standard procedure. For a brief time we communicated through email, then she told me in one email that it would be the last thing she would respond. I tried to send her a couple emails after that but she didn’t respond. Most likely she marked me as spam. The last time I tried to contact her was at the start of April.
Today I was feeling nostalgic and wanted to look at her Facebook, which honestly, seeing how she’s doing would just torture me but whatever. Yet I couldn’t access her page. Then I did a thing to find out if I was blocked from her Facebook and, yup I was. I haven’t sent her a Facebook message in about a year, since before we became a couple, and I never posted on her page, but I guess at one point she thought I would try to contact her that way. I was actually the one to unfriend her. So she had to go out of her way to block me.
Finding out I was blocked from her Facebook made me feel a little sick. How could she hate me so much? I did not cheat on her, I was never abusive to her, physically, verbally, or emotionally to her. I never lied to her or disrespected her, or stole from her. The only thing I did to her, was annoy her by trying to get closure, and trying to get her to explain why she dumped me. Was that enough to garner the same response as if I’d cheated on her with three women?
Claire says
Sound like her feelings for you have faded…Sounds like my bf except his more terrible..He steal my stuff before pulling the disappearing act. He never initiate break up. We are on ldr relationship and almost talk daily for 2years and play same game together. The day after he received my parcel I send him for Christmas he disappear. Blocked me so I can’t text him and deactivated his fb I don’t even know why. Then I login to the game we always play and found the expensive items in our shared account and my account all gone..Such a low blow…
Lhm says
Have you heard anything?
Erik says
Hello Claire. I met a girl from Germany in a game 6 months ago. I live in Belgium. I visited her once a month in Germany for a long weekend wich costed me 400+ euro /month. Than she came to me for a week and after that for 2 weeks , also i payed it. After the second visit we had a fight about something and she blocked me everywhere. Other phone number , other emailadress etc etc , there is no way to contact her. I am destroyed about this. I dont understand how people can be like this. I did everything for her 🙁
Nisha says
Hi…
My ex broke up aid me almost 5 months ago. Actually it was all my mistake.I became very possessive and desperate. So he just blocked me on what’s app. Then I went on no contact. And after 3 months he again unblocked me. And recently I also started talking wid him. Everythin was going good. But he told me that he has moved on. I told him that I haven’t . And it was a huge mistake that I did I told him something really hurtful about the breakup. Then he got angry n told me not to contact him anymore and blocked me on what’s app n facebook . I really don’t kno what to do now. I m helpless . I really want him back . Please help me.
Anonymous says
U were probably better off cheating